5 Masturbation Tips for Awesome Solo Sex

We all strive to be good in the bedroom. We try to look our best and put on a good show. We make our partners feel good with a variety of different techniques and we always strive to spice things up when we can. However, we don’t always extend this attention and effort to when we’re going it alone – and that’s a shame. Masturbation is a great time to try out new things, reconnect with your body, destress, and above all, enjoy ourselves. This can get a little difficult once we slack off, though, and let things become stale. Luckily, this doesn’t ever have to happen. Just by learning a few new moves and changing things up, you can keep your alone time hot and your orgasms even hotter. Here are just a few of our top masturbation tips for women to help you out.

 

  1. Change Up Your Technique

We all have our go-tos when it comes to getting ourselves off, and that’s okay! But variety is the spice of life, sex lives included. Don’t let yourself get stuck in a rut and focus on ways to introduce some novelty. Are you used to rubbing yourself in circles? Try using back and forth motions or try up and down strokes. Do you tend to only focus on external stimulation? Try introducing some penetration either with your fingers or a favorite toy. Do you usually opt for fantasizing with your eyes closed? Try watching some porn or reading a hot novel. Overall, just explore and do something a little less familiar.

 

  1. Sex Toys are Your Friends

Despite the fact that it is 2020 now, there’s still a significant stigma attached to using sex toys. Don’t allow yourself to avoid them because of that. Toys are great tools to use, especially when it comes to solo sex. Vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, and more all provide unique sensations that can add up steamier playtime and stronger, more intense climaxes. Just be sure to buy high-quality toys and start slow!

 

  1. There’s Never Too Much Lube

People often think that lubricants are unnecessary if you are already wet and aroused. Not true! Even if you think you’re plenty wet on your own, you can almost always use a helping hand. Using a good lube will ensure everything stays nice and slick for a friction-free time. As for what lube to choose, a water-based option is best since it is mess-free and works perfectly even with condoms or silicone toys. It does tend to dry up faster than its silicone counterparts, though, so be sure to use liberally and use often!

 

  1. Try Your Hand at Edging

Lots of women try to make their masturbation time as a sprint rather than a long-distance jog. It’s understandable. With so much on your plate, it can feel impossible (or selfish) to set aside time for anything much less masturbation. But remember, solo sex is just as important as partnered sex. It deserves just as much time, care, and dedication. A good way to embrace this? Edging! Edging draws out the experience and will keep you close to orgasm for an extended period of time. A nice departure from rushed quickies, it will feel far sexier and make climax far more satisfying.

 

  1. Explore Kink
What’s more taboo than sex toys and keeps people on edge better than, well, edging? Kink. Kink is still an often-unheard discussion amongst people, especially women, but it’s just another healthy, fulfilling component of sexuality. Feel free to explore it, including within the context of masturbation. Porn, of course, is a great avenue for this, with several different platforms and thousands upon thousands of different videos embracing everything from BDSM to foot fetishes to leather, latex, and more. Get an idea of what you like, watch some porn, and implement a few accoutrements when you can. Use a spreader bar on yourself. Buy a collar. Try out puppy or kitten play. Maybe just wear a blindfold. The choice is yours.

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